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Originally Posted by tinfoil
Disappointed your parents? Hardly. Hooking up with a crack-whore while doing lines off of her underaged sister's ass may disappoint your parents, but being somewhat "cold and distant" is nothing more than an annoyance. Mother's are a strange bunch and sometimes you don't pick up on the undertones or hidden meanings. Your father can probably tell you dozens of times when he missed the hidden meaning of a question or statement.
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Agreed. And here's the thing: no, you don't need her help. Tell her that you appreciate the offer, and you are thankful for all their help and you appreciate them in general, but you are fine to move out by yourself. You don't owe anyone the ability to come "help" you do anything you're doing on your own. She just wants to be involved, wants to be in your life just as long as she can be. If she is hurt because you simply said you didn't need help, that's her emotional reaction, and not your fault.