Hektore

I'm gonna jump on the "The only person who can really tell you what you should do is her" bandwagon because it's the truth.

Something you could try if you're both looking for ideas is to have her sit on your face, literally (on her knees, think female superior(cowgirl?)). When we switched to this and she went from bucking me away. to leaning forward and just pushing me into the mattress, which means I don't really lose contact unless she picks herself up(or I do, you have to come up for air at least once in a while). Who knows, she may even be into you just holding her down, some girls like to be ...controlled from time to time.

You never know unless you ask.

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