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Originally Posted by thesupermikey
Movies like Nightmare on Elm Street are very much about sexual repression, as the 'monster' punished teens for stepping outside social norms by become sexually active before marriage.
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Well shit, if that's true, then watching Freddie Krueger from age 5 on only reinforced my desire to wait until marriage... I can blame horror movies for why I was a virgin so long!!!
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Originally Posted by Toaster126
I think fear and sex are mutually exclusive. In fact, I'm pretty sure I would be physically unable to have sex if I was afraid.
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Not if you were a sub... in that case, the "being afraid" part is a massive turn on, because it takes place within an atmosphere of total trust (e.g. the dom is going to beat you/hurt you, which is scary, but he/she also loves you and won't *really* hurt you because it's a safe situation and there are safewords and all that). Very complex psychology, if you ask me... I don't always understand it, but Gilda illustrated parts of it very well.