I agree that she is frustrated and taking it out on you. True, she shouldn't do this but it happens alot. I see it mostly in people that are upperclassmen in high school because they are so stressed trying to get into the schools they want and please their parents and some people just can't accept doing poorly on tests. It's not that uncommon, especially in people that are dedicated to schoolwork. I think that the best thing you can do is to just listen to her and make her feel better without bringing up the test. Though, if it becomes a very detrimental thing you should probably call her out on it and see if she is willing to try not to cause fights.
People are right though that this may or may not pass. She might get over it in a couple months or so but down the road when something like the test happens again chances are that she'll do it again. I guess that maybe it is just a matter of how important she is to you.
Just be as supportive as you can and she should get over it with some time. Or maybe you could help her study so that she can take the test over and do better, this could offend her though so be careful.
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