My advice, tell her that she either needs to let go of the test or let go of you. If she's not willing to accept herself as your equal then there's no point in trying to have a relationship. She needs to do this herself, not by you telling her how great she is and/or downplaying your own intelligence, it hasn't worked yet and it isn't going to, trust me.
I have a bit of an inferiority complex myself and the best way a woman has gotten me to stop antagonizing myself is to refuse to play the game. Your girlfriend will stop this nonsense if the relationship is important enough to her, otherwise it isn't worth saving.
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