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I think Sultana is right... ups and downs are a regular part of life. The only concern for you would be, how quickly do your ups become downs, and vice versa? Also, do you have certain "triggers" that change your mood drastically? Have you talked with a therapist about your concerns?
For me, being in a long-distance relationship made me pretty vulnerable to mood instability. Little things set me off easily, without notice. I wondered if I needed to be on anti-depressants. But ever since I finally moved in with my husband, I feel like my mood is pretty "even-keeled" for the most part. There are still things that make me feel a bit sad or depressed, but not nearly as badly as I used to. But if I had continued having problems with regulating my emotions even after the relationship stopped being long-distance, I definitely would have looked into anti-depressants and other forms of therapy... because that's just not natural for me.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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