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ngdawg · 01-27-2007, 10:54 PM

I can relate to falling for someone without ever meeting them, just by talking.. It's not as farfetched as some might think. That being said, there are still things that can only be dealt with face to face and then it will either grow or die.
I'm not sure what this meant: She's a little over a year pregnant. She was like 15 I think when she got pregnant., but I'll make the assumption that the twins are a year old or so. As the mother of twins (albeit, I had them later in life), I can tell you the weight does not fall off, magically or otherwise, without work. Chasing toddlers doesn't do it.
You're dealing with a (supposedly) 17 year old girl. I should think that she has enough issues in her life right now not to be burdened by any doubts you're having. Moving 'to the same place' whether it's the same town or living together, without being face to face to allow this to grow is a bit hasty to say the least. And if you're only 18, I can unequivocably state that you both are too young to be making such plans, given the current situation.

01-27-2007, 10:54 PM	#28 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	I can relate to falling for someone without ever meeting them, just by talking.. It's not as farfetched as some might think. That being said, there are still things that can only be dealt with face to face and then it will either grow or die. I'm not sure what this meant: She's a little over a year pregnant. She was like 15 I think when she got pregnant., but I'll make the assumption that the twins are a year old or so. As the mother of twins (albeit, I had them later in life), I can tell you the weight does not fall off, magically or otherwise, without work. Chasing toddlers doesn't do it. You're dealing with a (supposedly) 17 year old girl. I should think that she has enough issues in her life right now not to be burdened by any doubts you're having. Moving 'to the same place' whether it's the same town or living together, without being face to face to allow this to grow is a bit hasty to say the least. And if you're only 18, I can unequivocably state that you both are too young to be making such plans, given the current situation. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.