I agree that physical attraction is a must. It is usually the first thing that catches the attention.
First of all, while love is a feeling and talking is important in a relationship. I'm not sure that what you have is an actual love type relationship. I mean, you've never met, never kissed, never touched. She hid her true image from you which is a red flag that there isn't a strong relationship there.
If you aren't attracted to her, you don't have much invested in it really because you haven't met. You have no idea, she might have some really annoying personality traits too.
It sounds to me that you are young. And I'm guessing she is very young too because if she had twins at 14 and is still carrying around weight. Either A) she recently had the twins and where is the dad? or B) she is just overweight.
Don't stay with someone you aren't attracted too. It's not fair to her and it's not fair to you either. Someone out there probably finds her very attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say.
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