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This is coming from an "old"guy. How are old are you and how old is she? I get the feeling that when you say "when we graduate" it means her from high school. If she was pregnant at 15, and it's been a year since she had the babies, she is around 17? Have you ever met her in person? I only ask because there is a huge difference between being in love with someone, and being in love with your image of someone. If she wasn't up front about her physical appearance, what else may she have mis-represented? Is she still involved with her babies? Have you seen pictures of them?
If so, are ready to take on the responsibilities of being a "dad" to a ready-made family? When you say "move the the same place" do you mean live together, or in the same town? Are you ready to start a life in a place that one, or both of you, are starting new with, or without, friends, contacts, family? I wish you the very best, because these things can work, but you have to ask the hard questions, and be totally sure of your commitment. As does she. These are difficult issues for people who meet in real life, too.
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