| I think its important to remember sometimes that just because parents are elderly doesn't mean they are nice.  My grandmother who just turned 90 is a vicious woman who would gladly destroy anyone who was foolish enough to live with her.  I see no reason why any one of her children should sacrifice their emotional well-being for her.  Likewise, were I to move in with my mother it would be a disaster.  As it stands, I am of more support to her emotionally living away than I would be if we lived together.  I don't believe I need to give up my life and well-being to be a good daughter.
 
				__________________Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson
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