| You would think that this is the plight of the only child, but not necessarily.  I have two older siblings, significantly older actually, who have completely washed their hands of any issues regarding our aging parents.  I am left to deal with it.  My mother is very emotionally reliant on me and panics if she thinks I'm not available.  I've already told her that if she needs me, I will come home for a period of time and help her out.  My brother and sister just pretend nothing is happening and I can't talk to them about it either.
 So I would not necessarily consider this an only child issue, it really comes down to personalities.
 
				__________________Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson
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