yonique

I did try therapy briefly when my second post divorce relationship ended. Since I do not have a history of sexual abuse, rape or any psychological trauma to cause my problems there wasn't anything she could do to help. Telling my boyfriend is not something I want to do. For the first time in my life I am content and enjoy sex even if I do not cum. I do not want to bring back all the tension, stress and frustration I had with previous lovers. Yes he would be kind and understanding and do anything he could but it's all been done to no avail. If I have sex for 2 or 3 hrs I want it to be because we are enjoying each other not because we are on a neverending quest for an orgasm. There are times I tell him I do not cum, if we are going to have a quickie and I'm tired...he is ok with it but always expresses he feels bad. I do not look forward to him feeling bad day after day and feeling like a sexual failure. I am content with cumming occasionally with oral and with masturbation.