Thanks for the suggestions Seaver and Shani. I don't know, I have a hard time believing that the problem is that I'm just not turned on enough because it's not like it only hurts at the beginning. It can be in the middle of sex or right after I orgasm or anything when it happens. I also think that is not the case because I used to enjoy the same things that he is doing now and I wasn't always fully warmed up while he was doing it.
As far as positions go, I agree that part of it is probably him hitting my cervix but doggie style does not bother me at all. In fact it's my favorite position. The positions that are the worst are the ones that put pressure on the front wall of my vagina I guess. This includes me on top when I sit up or lean back at all as well as positions where I'm laying down and he's sitting up. When my boyfriend is erect his penis is straight up against his abdomen, not out at all so this probably exaggerates the problem.
I was always under the notion that pain from the cervix happened when he went to deep, and while this is part of the problem I guess I don't understand why the area around my g spot would hurt too.
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