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Originally Posted by Valentina
Maybe not. I've just figured out that, really, male technique has a LOT to do with female orgasm.
I don't know enough about your age, circumstances, etc. to be able to give any specific advice...and I am also not sure whether you can come with oral/clitoral stimulation but not with intercourse...but if you can't come AT ALL, that could have a lot to do with the fact that your man hasn't taken the time to learn proper technique. It could also have something to do with your psychology, your age, your anatomy (and the combination of your anatomy and his), etc. etc.
Good luck, though--and don't give up! (See next post!)
Yes. This has been true for me. In fact, I'm 37 and just had my very first genuine g-spot orgasm. AWESOME! I'd squirted before, but never actually experienced the G-spot O. It was worth the wait--and definitely wouldn't have happened if I hadn't been with a guy who knew exactly what he was doing.  |
amen to this...I was 35 before I had a gspot O (or even a multiple for that matter) I spent years thinking there was something "wrong" with me cause all I ever heard was people saying they came so many times blah blah blah
You have to take the time to figure out what works for you, and by that I mean you need to do that exploration YOURSELF so that you can communicate to your partner what they might or might not be doing to help you along. I have no problems at all telling Dave that at any given time x y or z just isnt working for me at that particular time.
also sex position is a BIG thing....I have a very hard time O'ing if im on bottom and usually end up having to stimulate myself while Dave is fucking me. If Im on top I have absolutely NO problem getting off...and doggy is out of the question because it hurts like holy hell because Im short inside and it hits my cervix.
I agree with the mental aspect of foreplay as well....If my "mind" is not in the mood nothing Dave does is gonna get me off...period