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My boyfriend and I have tried the whole "foreplaying" before sex thing and it doesn't work.
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Um... it sounds like none of you actually know what you're doing. That's fine, I didn't in High School. Foreplay is not just licking each other, or sucking nipples. It's about getting into the mental mood, not just physical. I know you probably love him with all your heart, which helps a great deal, but foreplay is more than just getting wet. Proper foreplay should make you crave him to be inside of you, it should get you so turned on before he even touches you down there that the moment he does is pure ecstasy. Teasing you, caressing every other part of you, passionately kissing and embracing you long before your cloths are off.
You will with time learn the difference between sex and passionate sex. One can not explain the difference, it has to be felt and experienced yourself. Maybe you'll never cum through sex, many women never do. Getting properly turned on during foreplay will get you a long way though.