Well the G-spot really only works when you are VERY turned on. If not it's like rushing pressure on the clit, instead of feeling good it's just very sensitive. Just take it a bit slower, maybe him going down on you while stimulating your G-spot with his finger. Another thing my ex loved is us laying down in a spooning-style sex with her vibrator on her clit. This allowed me doggy-esque position (which lets face it, every guy loves), it stimulated her g-spot with the position, and the vibrator gave her the clitoral stimulation.
Another position you might want to try is missionary, just slightly altered. Have him move his hips until they're right ontop of yours. This causes the penis shaft to bend around your clit. Have him go nice and slow with deep thrusts. If he has a penis that curves up this should hit both your clit and g-spot, plus because it's still missionary you can look into each others eyes and kiss.
About the pain, I imagine he's hitting your cervix. I've had this with a couple girlfriends who were small in there. If you think this is the problem, just alter your positions. Doggy style sex makes him penetrate the deepest, while you on top allows you to control the depth. Until you are fully turned on to the point of simply wanting him to take you, shy away from doggy.
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Last edited by Seaver; 01-23-2007 at 09:06 AM..
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