In the past I had trouble getting there but not anymore. I don't know it might have to do with your man, like the others said I wouldn't stress over it. Allow your self to just get lost in the moment and let stress/fears/pressure just go out of your head. I find the fastest way I get there is being on top where I can control the cliteral stimulation plus the penetration.
Hope everything works out. Also try masturbating by yourself to get to know your body and what feels good to you.
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