Josie - I have no advice from basd on experience. But I suggest that you look at starting a new relationship with this new person whom you have met, and try to forget the old person who never was.
Maybe your kid has aspects of both personalities.
My mom was very good at reconciling the extreme sides of my personality and viewing me as single person who wore different faces. As a result, I showed her more and more of the "me" that existed outside of the house.
Maybe if you wer more specific as to the nature of the deception, we could offer you better advice.
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