Hi my name is Melissa and I read this whole discussion and I've tried it all... I'm beginning to feel like there is no hope... My boyfriend and I have tried the whole "foreplaying" before sex thing and it doesn't work. I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what? but I need to figure some thing out and It's not because I'm not relaxed cause trust me I am...

He can make me orgasm when he eats me out but he can't in sex... I can't even make myself with my fingers. I mean trust me it still feels really good when he fingers me and when we have sex but I can never get to an orgasm through it... and I feel bad because my boyfriend is so determinded and all I do is dissapoint him on every idea he gets... Does anyone have ANY advice? cause I'm running out of ideas and so is he and I really want to orgasm for him the next time he's home from the marines... (that's in 18 days)