Where ois the girl from when you were 20? You were probably in love then too, but if girl A was still around, then girl B never would have occurred. and C, and D, and so on. Everyone you have contact with can teach you valuable lessons, or break you heart and you can't live with them or without them. Trust me, in 10 yrs, you won't be able to remember this last girl's full name, address, phone number, or the cool thing she did with her tongue. So why wait that long to get over her? the only person guaranteed to be there for you is... you. Appreciate the time with her, recognize the areas you've grown, and promise yourself you won't impose any silly "been hurt before" rules on the next person who shares their heart with you. They don't need to live by rules created because your ex hurt you.
Robert DeNiro in the movie Heat had the right idea. Love who you want, but always be prepared to walk away from them.
remember, even though your ex is with someone now, chances are your next girlfriend is with someone too! enjoy the time you have, respect the women who share their love with you, and don't choose anyone over your family or close friends. they will be the ones who have to listen to you gaga over the next one, and then console you when it's over.
in the meantime, may I recommend some good porn?
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