I would rather have a kid that knew the meaning of work and responsibility than one who just begged the parents for handouts and presents all the time. And living under a dictatorship is probably worse than letting the kid do what they want as long as they don't hurt themselves or anyone else. Growing up in strict conservative homes turns kids into wild people when they get their freedom, or there is enough shame and fear in them that they can't enjoy life.
The best mix would be a mixure of all of them, where the kid gets a voice (like congress), but the parents can veto it (President). The parents are a protector, judge & advisor, but allow your kids to learn and live their own life.
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