I like taking care of my wife. We have a housekeeper that takes care of most of the cleaning, but I'm the one who prepares morning and afternoon tea and makes the evening meal when we don't eat out.
Balance is about meeting both partner's needs. Expecting that one partner is going to do all the housework because of her sex, or a feeling of entitlement to that from a girlfriend isn't a healthy way to go into a relationship.
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