Yes, you should tell him that a maid would make life easier for him, she wouldn't complain and would do everything he wants, since she's getting paid.
Sarcasm aside, that sucks, but a lot of guys subconsciously like it when their woman picks up after them - even if they don't mean to be that way I think for many it's kind of hardwired in their brains. I for one will not tolerate it - neither should you.
I can't believe your boyfriend said that to you and thinks it's ok.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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