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Originally Posted by TransAm-LT1
I might be wrong. The impression I get is that she really likes me, but shes scared of being so intimate with some one and then getting her heart broken.
She is young as far as Love and relationships are concerned, This will be something you need to accept if you intend to become involved. Fortunately, you are also young in this respect which will make it far easier to deal with....and has a very good chance of ending painfully for you both. I say fortunately because, it is through such lessons we gain insight into these complicated life lessons, and learn how to deal with the powerful bonds maturity place in our lives.
Well hang out, and she'll get really flirty with me like before and then it's like she'll stop her self and become withdrawn. She dated her ex for a while, and he was starting to live with her then he broke up with her. I know that hurt her, but im not sure what to do.
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You need to decide if you want to take his place....because you WILL be doing so at first. If she moves on from the damaged relationship to a new one, she will be bringing the residue with her and you will need to deal with it. This means your actions will be seen in the light of whatever crap still floats in her mind from him.....thus is the reality of everything we do with each other. The Key here is to know what is ahead of you BEFORE you decide to take it on, and be prepared for it, and even use it to further your own agenda.