I agree with Sharon. Until you stand up and be a man, she will always see her ex as "the man" no matter how much she claims to hate him, no matter how much she actually hates him, she will always feel the sexual attraction to "the man."
Stand up, tell her you do not want to be her luggage rack. Tell her that she needs to either get over her ex and be with you or she can find someone else to complain about her ex to.
This will lead to one or two things. She will get pissed, and take all that pent up anger she has for her ex on you, hell she might even say how y'all are the exact same and you will never speak again. Or two, she'll realize what she's been doing is relegating her current boyfriend to the back burner while she in reality picks her "asshole exboyfriend" over you. She may get pissy in the short term, but apparently she's a tempestuous girl so you can expect that.
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