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Relationship woes
I haven't posted here in a while, but I know the TFP is a great place for advice.
So here's my problem. I've know this girl Jessica for since late August. At that time she was dumped by this guy Jeff, we talked and were good friends. We talked almost every day. There was always good chemistry between us and every one is like yeah you two need to go out. We were hanging out one night, and it just kinda hit us we were kissing and telling each other about our feelings towards each other. However we dated from early November to mid December. Which isn't that long, things were good but she was always and I mean always arguing with her ex boyfriend. They'd always be fighting, and he could say the magic words and just break her heart all over again. I hated seeing it because she was hurting so bad. Well, her ex's best friend came into town, and then things between her and the ex got worse. Multi fights a day, she was going through finals and I didn't hear from her for almost a week. She apparently spent a lot of time with his best friend. When she did call me, she was talking about how her ex thought that she was having sex with his bestfriend, then we got into an argument about us. I was already sick of hearing about her ex all the time (hear it almost every day), I told her that I cared about her and that she shoulden't worry about what her ass ex says. We are together and I would never treat her like that. Unfortantly we ended up breaking up. Come Newyears we got to talking again and we both still have feelings for each other. We spent newyears together, and vowed to start over new. I brought her roses a few days after New years because we were suppost to go to dinner and that kinda freaked her out. She said I was going too fast and she had never gotten flowers from any one before. So, here I am at my current issue. We don't talk all the time like we used too, when I do call she normally puts me to voice mail (I dont' call all time time, like maybe once every few days) and if we talk online she normally responds with one word responses. Yeah, huh, etc. She knows my feelings towards her. Am I wrong for still trying? Or is there no chance between a relationship between us. I really like her, I know she was devastated by her ex treating her like crap. My heart says to give her time and she'll come around, but my brain is saying that she's a lost cause and doesn't know what she wants. Any ideas? Sorry for the long post. I really dont know what to do any more.
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