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majik_6 · 05-29-2003, 01:35 PM

I don't have great advice for you, but I can say that I feel for you.

After two and a half years, my now ex ended things about two weeks ago. It was expected, but hurt, since She was all I'd known for over 1/6th of my life. She had been one of my two absolute best friends in highschool for about 2 years before we got together and I shared almost everything with her.

All I can say is, time will heal it. Know that if she's leaving you for someone else, then she obviously wasn't TOTALLY open with you, and just be thankful (yeah, it's hard) that you didn't make it too far before realizing that.

A sign at a local sandwich has the line "love like you've never been hurt" and I think that's VERY true. Be more careful next time, but don't be afraid to put yourself into a relationship, heart, mind and body. Just know what you need to keep yourself happy and sane, and be sure to give yourself the alone time you need to make sure that you're ready for your next relationship and to make sure you know what you need for yourself in a relationship.

My heart goes out to you, and I hope that everything improves for you, since you really sound like a genuine, caring individual.

05-29-2003, 01:35 PM	#18 (permalink)
majik_6 narcissist Location: looking in a mirror	I don't have great advice for you, but I can say that I feel for you. After two and a half years, my now ex ended things about two weeks ago. It was expected, but hurt, since She was all I'd known for over 1/6th of my life. She had been one of my two absolute best friends in highschool for about 2 years before we got together and I shared almost everything with her. All I can say is, time will heal it. Know that if she's leaving you for someone else, then she obviously wasn't TOTALLY open with you, and just be thankful (yeah, it's hard) that you didn't make it too far before realizing that. A sign at a local sandwich has the line "love like you've never been hurt" and I think that's VERY true. Be more careful next time, but don't be afraid to put yourself into a relationship, heart, mind and body. Just know what you need to keep yourself happy and sane, and be sure to give yourself the alone time you need to make sure that you're ready for your next relationship and to make sure you know what you need for yourself in a relationship. My heart goes out to you, and I hope that everything improves for you, since you really sound like a genuine, caring individual. __________________ it's all about self-indulgence Last edited by majik_6; 05-29-2003 at 01:44 PM..