I agree with ratbastid and Sultana - the way you have articulated your feelings is very clear and compassionate, and I believe that while her father may not like you particularly for doing this at this late stage, he will certainly respect you for thinking of his daughter's long term well being.
Please do let us know if there are any further updates... I'm interested to hear how it all works out, and wish you all the best in a difficult situation.
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