Everything you just said in that last post, you should let her know (as nicely and politely as possible). It's YOUR day, not hers. Do it how you want! Yes, she'll be offended, yes she'll have a problem with it. If she's a real friend she'll understand the situation, and after some time you'll both be great friends. If she let's it get to her and you lose your friendship over YOU wanting what YOU want for YOUR wedding, then she's not the best friend you could have.
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