just be honest with her - don't come up wtih a story to spare her feelings - just tell the truth - what you said above.... sure one more person probably won't make a difference but it's family only...
Are you going to wear a special dress? Maybe ask her to go shopping with you for the dress? Or have a girls night where you can do something fun together...
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