Brewmaniac

Lisa, this your wedding and you have your dreams, so as Jess, suggested you must gently tell her how it's going to be. Do you want her at your wedding at all? If you do, maybe you could give here a smaller job like holding your flowers or something or give the first toast at the reception. It's just a thought?

I know my wife wanted the church part her way and she let the mothers do the reception and all was well.

I didn't do the traditional thing either, my best men were my two brothers, not my best friend.

It's your day, have it your way!

edit: I'm a slow typer so It looks like I'm just saying what others already posted.

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