Q1: I would not suggest reinforcing their behavior of wetting at 3 am. Try this: Tomorrow let them out to pee at 3:30, then 4:00, then 4:30, then 5, etc. Work them into a normal schedule and you'll be back to bed in no time.
Q2: This is a tough one. Let them fight, but break it up regularly. You can't just amke them into robots, but it could escelate into dangerous fighting and you don't want that. Make yourself the alpha-male. Control the fights, make sure they stay innocent and safe.
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