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If you don't know what's bothering her or why, then you're very obviously not communicating as well as you think. This is a very basic thing, and it's something you have to work on constantly. There are no shortcuts, and it can be a difficult process. Start by asking why then waiting for the answer. Don't interrupt but ask leading questions and LISTEN to the responses. Don't wait to talk, just listen.
Good luck.
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