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Originally Posted by james t kirk
You seem like a decent guy and like most men, we tend to be loyal to our women and breaking up with them after a length of time is usually incredibly difficult (though we as males will play bury the salami if given the opportunity). Contrast this behaviour to women however. Women will dump a guy for far less grief than you are experiencing and not give it a second thought. Far more self serving than any man. It's time to act like a woman and look out for yourself.
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Wow, that is a pretty bleak outlook on women... not one that I agree with at all. And frankly that's not true about men either.
Anyways, I'm not sure what I would do in your position. If you've talked about it with her and still nothing changes, then maybe you should be thinking about ending the relationship. Staying in that relationship, if nothing changes, will only lead to resentment. Maybe if you sit her down and let her know just how big of a deal this problem is for you she will realize that it is not insignificant..