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An update: I talked to another Argentine girl and she told me this is normal behaviour here. After ending a long and intense relationship, a woman can go into a period of mourning of sorts. They write tango songs about these dramatic moments in life. Older women also don't want to look too easy at first etc..

After listening to how things have gone so far, my argentine friend thinks things are going great and that I need to keep meeting with this woman, taking her out to cafes and dinner to talk about anything except the ex-boyfriend. It's my job to get her mind on other things. It's super cheap to date here btw; a steak dinner for the two of us cost 40 pesos with tip, which is about $13 USD. A bottle of Mendoza wine is about $3. I could go on...

I should also mention that it was her that invited me to go out for dinner for the second date. There's no doubt she's interested in me, just maybe not on a physical level yet. She might also have other guys after her since honestly, every guy watched her walk into the restaurant with me.

Still haven't been out on the boat yet but it's supposed to happen soon. She has to take a day off work and prepare the boat etc...

Anyway.. she called me last weekend and invited me along with her girl friend to go to the local beach. While we were on the Bus heading out to the beach, we met up with a casual friend of hers who also had a friend along. We all ended up sitting together on the beach and although my spanish is limited, I managed to chat with this new girl for most of the time (besides the woman I went with). While on the Bus ride back into the city and standing in a packed Bus, I got the new girl to enter her info into my phone, which she was happy to do.

Long story short, I messaged the new girl and set up a date on sunday, and we went to see a movie and then eat. This one IS interested in me and it went well (very kissable) despite the language barrier. Of course she asked me about the first woman and I told her she's just a friend for now. No doubt the first woman will ask who this new girl is the next time we're together. I could see her watching me while we were at the beach as I practiced saying "I don't have a girlfriend". This in front of about 5 single women in bikinis sitting with us.

The woman and the girl don't know each other so I'll keep in contact with both. Sent both of them text messages saying I enjoyed spending time with them and like them. They both replied with warm feelings. The original woman says she things we're good we're very agreeable.

All of this in spanish although the first woman speaks english very well. She also has an amazing ass. Haha. I'll go on the boat with her and play it cool. When it comes down to an intimate moment I'll just lead a little bit and see where it goes. If we're just friends, no problemo.

My thoughts exactly.

Thanks for the advice. I'll update if something actually works out.