I've lurked around this forum for quite a while now, occasionally replying to posts, sometimes coming here every day, then nothing for months, and then coming back again.
One of the recommendations I've seen here over and over again is the book "
The guide to getting it on"
My girlfriend bought me a copy as an early xmas present after I'd spotted it in a local shop. She didn't pay much attention at the time, but she suprised me with it when we swapped our christmas pressies. (i'm travelling back to Europe for Xmas and won't be here).
I really must say... What an AWSOME book! There's stuff in there that is so much more than just "how to make her come in 3 seconds". There's chapters in it on the relationship a man has with his dick (the only toy he gets during childhood and is allowed to play with it for life... hehehe) through to 3somes, kinky play and even discussion on foreskins...
It's now $15 at Amazon... If you want to give your loved one a really good, and funny book, it really is worth it.
Yo Ho ho,
Merry Christmas,
Mr_T