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l&t,
the good news is that you're aware of these feelings / thoughts, and that you're not trying to repress them anymore. you don't have to do anything drastic, at least from what i'm hearing. you may elect to, but you can probably just ease back on the marriage/baby talk a bit, and take it from there. frankly, what will be will be, in the sense that she will almost definitely realize that you're not moving full speed ahead with project Alter-Make-Baby, and that will likely lead to a conversation about your apparent change of heart at some point. that's the way these relationship things tend to go...the important thing is for you to realize that you're only as trapped as you let yourself be / choose to be.
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