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Impetuous1 · 12-10-2006, 06:32 PM

Wow, you're only 18 and her mom calls you her son-in-law! That's pretty f'd up. What is she thinking! IMO you almost definitely are too young for that level of commitment. Don't get me wrong, there are some people who do pull it off but it's really rare to meet someone who got hitched at 18 and are still together 10 years later. At this point in your life you should be trying to figure out who you are. Believe me, who you are right now will be pretty different than what you will be like at 30. Not to mention that your wants and needs may be completely different. Keep in mind that if you do get married at such a young age, there is a huge possibility that you could grow apart into completely different people. Think long and hard on this whatever you decide. Good luck.

12-10-2006, 06:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
Impetuous1 Insane Location: Arizona	Wow, you're only 18 and her mom calls you her son-in-law! That's pretty f'd up. What is she thinking! IMO you almost definitely are too young for that level of commitment. Don't get me wrong, there are some people who do pull it off but it's really rare to meet someone who got hitched at 18 and are still together 10 years later. At this point in your life you should be trying to figure out who you are. Believe me, who you are right now will be pretty different than what you will be like at 30. Not to mention that your wants and needs may be completely different. Keep in mind that if you do get married at such a young age, there is a huge possibility that you could grow apart into completely different people. Think long and hard on this whatever you decide. Good luck.