People get cold feet before a wedding, and it sometimes makes them question the whole relationship. You should look closely at this and make sure that's not what's going on.
Assuming it's not:
If you have a good relationship with her dad, go to him and lay it all out. He doesn't want to see his daughter in a bad relationship, or divorced a few years down the road, and he also doesn't want to see her hurt herself too badly in a breakup right now. In short, he wants all the same things you want. He can help you tell her.
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