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Right. Well, like I said, unless I'm missing something I don't see a big problem with you seeing her conversation with this guy on her MySpace account. Or is it that you confronted her with it in an accusatory way which has made her take a defensive position? I take it from your reply that it's something like that. Well, I think that's the sort of thing that only honesty and time can settle. Just tell her that you got jealous and reacted impulsively without thinking it through and that you're very sorry. She may not forgive you right away, but it will open up an avenue for talking about it more favorably in the near future. Sometimes people just need a little time to accumulate on these things to see them from a less drastic perspective. The thought of waiting, I know, can be unbearable but you could probably use the time to sort out your feelings on this, too.
I suspect that other people here can give you better advice, though.
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