Well, I'm not sure exactly what the problem is. She's been flirting. You've been flirting. Both possibly seeing someone else. Not really together.
My only advice would be, keep it casual. See each other when you can. See other people if you want. And if you think she is lying by giving you false excuses for not seeing you, then that's her problem, not yours. Do something else that night. And if it continues, tell her to take a hike, or just stop calling her.
As for the MySpace thing, I don't really consider that stalking. It's a public page that you obviously have access to. If she didn't want anyone to read it, she would have taken the conversation to email or something, ya know?
I don't know if any of that helps. I was married at 18 so I don't have much experience on the dating scene.
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