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Perhaps you are a switch? A switch is someone who likes both sides of the fence.
There are many schools of thought when it comes to BDSM relationships. Some would propose that slave=sub and sub=slave. To me this is not true. In my eyes a sub is simply a person that like being submissive but still has their own voice and power. A slave has no voice, no command, no power.
A truly dominant figure will not under any circumstances play the part of a submissive. There is no value to serving in their eyes. They are to be served. Note, this does not mean you don't show affection and kindness.. you are simply the "alpha" of the relationship.
Does this answer your question? Probably not. Only exploration and experimentation will bring the true answer about.
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