As I get older, I realize more and more there isn't a "right" and a "wrong". There is just stuff I agree with, and stuff I don't. And that can change. I think how people percieve a situation has at least as much to do with themselves as it does with the actual situation.
I'm not going to give any more advice to someone who hides behind a fake name, but if the person chooses to, I would be happy to talk to them about this. Take some inspiration from people on TFP that have spoken about much more personal stuff than this. 
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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