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Originally Posted by cookmo
Friendship developed into romance and we decided to meet in person to see if it was "real" or not. Turns out that it is the most right thing either of us have ever felt, and we don't want to be apart and do the whole long distance thing. I am in school here in Ohio, and he is from New Hampshire. Weve decided that he is going to move here with me, so that I can finish school and what not.
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You must realize that your family is just trying to protect you, and they have every reason to. How can you say that this is the most right thing you have ever felt if you guys have only met once in person?(I assume, by what you wrote). Despite the fact that you have been chatting online for more than 6 months, it takes a lot of human contact to find out who is right for you. By human contact I mean spending time together in real life and getting to know eachother; you don't want to rush into things and end up getting hurt.
I'll have to echo the sentiments of the other posters in this thread when it comes to him moving in with you. There isn't a person in this world who could convince me to come and move in with them at this point in my life. Of course, that's not to say this guy isn't at such a point, but any situation in which someone is willing to leave their life behind that quickly doesn't seem conducive to the start of a healthy relationship.
We all want you to be happy, but meet the guy a few more times in person before you guys decide to live together, and he decides to move hundreds of miles for this.