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Originally Posted by MrSelfDestruct
I have a hilarious mental picture of you playing World of Warcraft and asking him for name, address, references, SSN, and telling him it's for a background check.
Anyone who is willing to move somewhere to be with you without even taking a trip out to meet you beforehand has issues. You may not see it now, but this guy is a nutcase.
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They did meet beforehand.
What I'm wondering is if there are any other reasons this guy wants to move. It seems a bit impulsive to me. Maybe he is desperate to get out of his parents house.
I met my current SO on myspace about a year ago. We moved in together about 7 months after we started dating. However we did live less than 5 miles from eachother originally so it wasn't long distance. However at first she had this hangup about telling people that we met on myspace. She would tell people that we met at a coffee shop. After time she ended up telling people the truth and they didn't even blink an eye.
If you are going to go through with this my advice to you is to be completely honest with your family and friends. And some of the posts above have some good advice too.