Cynthetiq

aahh but see loquitur, you do agree with me.. note I said, "unless you let them." You choose to let them.

I disagree with the grandparents thing. I couldn't give a rats ass about my father's father or his mother. I don't wish ill upon him/her but he doesn't do jack for me, he doesn't call, doesn't write, doesn't acknowledge I'm alive except for when he wants something. My parents couldn't do anything to make it any different.

Kids have grandparents by default, but are they loving ones? That's up to them, not you or the child control that.

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