I have only cried (as a teenager and an adult) when I have lost emotional control. I don't mean I lost my ability to suppress my emotionas, I mean I lost my ability to focus that emotional energy into constructive force. Crying when I am sad, or angry, or happy, does nothing for me but induce feelings of helplessness. And getting over those feelings sometimes feels like an eternity.
I will stick with not crying.
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Where there is doubt there is freedom.
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