Originally Posted by Charlatan

Wow. I am amazed that in this day and age there is even a question about going down on a woman.

I can't imagine leaving it for later or even being hung up on it. To me, it's an essential part of the whole process (well not essential every time, just essential in that it is part of the ongoing bag of tricks, if you follow me).

If you like it and want it. The only way to get it is to talk to him. I know it's hard to talk about sex, we are conditioned not to. We just do it. But it's important to talk about it. Speak frankly and openly with him about what you like and what you want. It may open the door to things he likes and wants from you but has been to nervous to talk about.