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Originally Posted by Shauk
Well, I guess the hard part of it is trying to match up with everyones work schedules and such. which is why I just generally stick to texts and so on.
meh.
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I second (third?) the "talk to them IRL" advice. Because I might be a bit old-fashioned, but texting and mailing is pretty close to zero commitment in my opinion. It's fine when it's about serious stuff that needs to be done, but for social activities, nah. A txt that says "Let's go out for coffee sometime" or similar I ignore unless I really really want to go out for a coffee with that person. A phonecall on the other hand might sway me. I'm cold like that. So I say make more effort and let your friends hear your voice.
(OT: Isn't there something special about voices? Actually hearing human voices must release endorfines or something. I know I go batshit crazy if I don't hear another human voice for more than a day or so. /OT)