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Jozrael · 11-27-2006, 08:08 AM

So, a couple angles to attack this from.

What is giving and what is taking?

In the context of a BDSM relationship, how does this affect domination and submission?

I'm in an extremely softcore BDSM relationship with my gf, we just like to be lightly dominated, and there's no sex (wouldn't have it any other way right now). We're both curious as to what we actually are at our cores, givers or takers.

Is one better than the other?

Is it possible to be both, and if so, is it possible to be really 50/50?

11-27-2006, 08:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
Jozrael Junkie	Giving vs. Taking So, a couple angles to attack this from. What is giving and what is taking? In the context of a BDSM relationship, how does this affect domination and submission? I'm in an extremely softcore BDSM relationship with my gf, we just like to be lightly dominated, and there's no sex (wouldn't have it any other way right now). We're both curious as to what we actually are at our cores, givers or takers. Is one better than the other? Is it possible to be both, and if so, is it possible to be really 50/50?